loves-limits

In my point of view I do think love is beautiful but odd. love can bring us to maximum level of happiness and down below 0 degree of HELL. This is the reality and the probability to get the max happiness is few. However most of us willing to risk to be in love states due to hope rush that lies somewhere in our heart believe that we also can archive an absolute happiness.

Some of us had a dreams to fall in love, to get married and have kids and grow old together. This dream are the reason why they become blind. This is where the phase 'love is blind' exist. To be in love is okay, nothing wrong with it but every one needs to bear in mind that everything have limit, and that includes LOVE. If you can't control your self, well, my dear you'll look like TOTALLY Idiots with no brains. We never can predict what will happen. LOVE is pure if we know how to do it right.

So do it right, think whats the best for you, only you. MOVE ON and LETTING GO is something you might need to learn in life. If he's not for you, just let GO and Move ON don't just stuck there and hope everything will be fine. My friend said love is all about sacrifice, well Sacrifice is a big WORD for me. but if by sacrifice we CAN own love, it would be easy as a pie. So I don't think sacrifice is the key to love. It's more than sacrifice and being stupid and to be over-GIVE are also stupid dummp dummp..

For Example;;

How if u met this guy and u fell in love, end-up the guy is a vampire. But FOR THE NAME OF love YOU WILLING TO BARE WITH IT AND SOMEHOW U BELIEVE IN YOU THAT THE GUY WILL CHANGE..someday.

Now tell me, is that love? this is what we called as self-sacrifice, you sacrifice your self and your life for something you are not sure and something with alot of issues though. This is STUPID! yes people can change, but please la, the possibilities are very few. does it worth to compare with your life?

nothing wrong to be optimistic but dont forget to be practical and realistic because, just being Optimistic won't enough!

Our parent teach us to be with someone who can drive us to the right path, and away from those people who damaged. Our parents force us to learn to able identify what is good and what is bad for us. That's what we learn and that what we should apply. NOT by self-sacrifice or choose the bad for the reason we believe it can change. YES maybe by do mistakes can educate us but it just wasting time to make mistakes just because we failed to choose the right thing. such a waste..

Please berpijak di dunia yang nyata and please don't/never stop educate ourselves to choose the right path and control our heart and our mind to not against our own principal for someone we LOVE because I do believe True loves drive us to the right path and make a wise decision without affecting us.